Your answers seem to indicate that what’s important is that you have a man in front of you – not that you are female. While sissies, crossdreamers and crossdressers often fantasize about men, these men are often (but not always) props in a deeper fantasy about being female. Okay, ‘sissy’ maybe a multi use term, but your consistent leaning towards men as sexual partners leads us to think that ‘gay’ or ‘bi’ is a better term for you. but have you considered the fact you might be gay? Or Bi? If the answer's 'yes' then that's surely something to 's a hell of a lot easier explaining to friends and family that you're gay.rather than a sissy. Okay, this might be a little difficult for you (or maybe not).